women/wives part2

[MadGypsy]

Well my wife and I started to quarrel again a bit and I came late form work one day so she was suspecting I did something behind herback...si we haven't spoken for days now...What would u do?

hardball answer:

Your wife doesn't trust you and no relationship can exist happily without trust. Resolve the trust issues or get a new wife. It isn't going to get better as long as she has even an iota of doubt in your fidelity.

[bloodsnipe]

Well my wife and I started to quarrel again a bit and I came late form work one day so she was suspecting I did something behind herback...si we haven't spoken for days now...What would u do?

Apologize. Not for doing something wrong, but for the fact you didn't do enough to make her feel otherwise. Ask her what you can do to put her mind at ease. Let her know that you care for her, but honestly, she's just feeling otherwise (justified or not, that doesnt matter). the way she is.

I can't go longer than 5 to 10 minutes without talking to my wife and resolving the issue when we fight. We fight maybe once or twice a year, because we communicate and listen, and I try especially hard not to make everything about myself, or reach emotionally.

[Phenom]

too much soap operas.

Either that or you gave her a reason to be suspicious.

I've been married for about 13 years now and nothing makes things worse then not talking. Suck it up cupcake and talk to her.

You get married to go through bullshit together, not let bullshit go between you and your other half.

I'd explain to her exactly why the circumstances were the way they were and if she can't accept that then that's her personal problem not allowing her to accept the truth... like R00k said.. maybe too much soap operas where relationships last about as long as a snowball in hell.

Sometimes being a man means you have to know when & how to talk to women, especially if she means so much to you that you married her.

Dr.Phen

[R00k]

Well my wife and I started to quarrel again a bit and I came late form work one day so she was suspecting I did something behind herback...si we haven't spoken for days now...What would u do?

Well only you truely know what u were doing, but if nothing and shes just tweaking, maybe shes fuckn around and acting like a wall, or she watches too much soap operas.

[Dilligaf]

I agree with Adam. Never go to sleep mad at one another, the next day is awkward and welcomes the possibility of moving forward like nothing happened.

Very good advice! X2 Get her talking... about anything... and things will eventually get around to what's bothering her.

REMEMBER It just takes a second, call her if you're going to be late from work.

Gotta' talk it out man... Silence in a marriage never leads anywhere fun. Good luck!!

[Mindf!3ldzX]

I agree with Adam. Never go to sleep mad at one another, the next day is awkward and welcomes the possibility of moving forward like nothing happened.

[Syluxguy28O3]

take out your frustrations on each other thru a game of quake dm.

[Adam]

Is this the insecure girlfriend you posted about 5 months ago or have you found someone else and got married since?

If it's the same girl I guess your relationship hasn't really improved then.

To answer your question, I think communication is the cornerstone of a good relationship.

Talk to each other.

[samiam]

Well my wife and I started to quarrel again a bit and I came late form work one day so she was suspecting I did something behind herback...si we haven't spoken for days now...What would u do?